Well, today is the day after Thanksgiving and all the advertisements have been zooming at us all. When I got home from a few days away my mail box was full of sales papers and political ads. It’s like Thanksgiving day is the day you stand on the starting line and wait for someone to say, “go!” and start running until Christmas is over. I think that is what makes us feel so empty on December 26th. We have been running and running to make Christmas this big unforgettable experience for our family that some how it is a let down. It came and it went and I didn’t feel the way I wanted to after it was over. I have had it with Christmas as usual, I have determined in my heart that Christmas is all about doing something for someone else who can’t pay you back in anyway.
That was the great times that Rhonda and I have had at Christmas. When our kids were small and we would buy things for them knowing they couldn’t do anything to repay us, we didn’t even expect a thank you or I love you or anything, we just gave with no expectations. I can’t remember the last time I gave a gift with no expectations. I believe that is the spirit of Christmas. Now that I think back it was so fun running from store to store looking for a Buzz light year because Tyler, my son, didn’t expect it and so it would be that big of a deal if he didn’t get it. But just to see the smile of a kid who did ask for a gift, get a gift and we as parents not expect anything in return. Now that was Christmas.
Now we sound like the varsity “What’ll you have, What’ll you have?” and when they get it because they ask for it we expect a THANK YOU, or I will never disappoint you again because you brought me this. That leaves me disappointed when I build Christmas up to be that. So, this year I am gathering my family and we are going choose a family that we can buy a gift for that can’t give us anything back. I just want my family to experience Christmas the way God meant it to be. Just giving without expectations because we want to, not because we have to.